Interview Series - Rebel Rhyder

So, I just enjoy that every day is different. I get to meet a lot of people, travel to new places, experience different things, all in a, you know, a relatively safe environment.

For me, it’s when I first started it was very unnatural. Because I am a pretty shy person. So, it took a lot of getting used to like people, like being there and watching me and like being the focus of everything. Usually, I don't like being the focus, but you know, the more that I started to do shoots, the more I liked being watched. And it just turned into something like right now it's supernatural.

So right now, I work mostly for studios, but it's probably like a, I'd say 70/30 split. So, 30% is my own stuff and I really enjoy that as well. It's just a different kind of feeling. So, studios are more like. Professional and like rigid with the schedule and like what we're going to perform and who's going to be there. And like a very strict like this is how much footage we need. And after this amount of time, we'll you know, kind of wrap it up and finish. And then my own stuff is very like it's more relaxed. It's kind of like go with the flow, whatever happens, happens, you know. So, it's just a different feeling and I can't really say I prefer one over the other but.

Probably my own stuff. Just because for studios you get the amount of money right then and there, but you don't make anything after that. So, if the video sells really well, you won't make anything extra from that versus your own production. Sure, it's a slower build up, but. You know, I'm still making money off stuff that I made three years ago, and it all adds up.

Nope. So, when you get booked to work at a studio, it's negotiated like 1 flat rate, and they pay you that rate. And you know if you work with them later on maybe your rate will increase, but. You don't get like, if it happens to be like an award-winning film, you won't get any extra money from that, just whatever way you initially agreed on.

So not too much. I've had, you know, everyone has creepy stalkers. I have had people, you know, like message me with my legal name and you know.

So, I mean, it's, it's a tough scenario because, you know, you can't just tell people to ignore it because you know, if it's something that gets to the point of someone stalking you, you can't. You can't ignore that. But it is just like one of the downsides of being in this industry is people are going to find out who you are like no matter how careful you are, if you never have any documents, or you know, if you don't say your legal name or anything, someone's going to find out who you are. And it's really creepy.

Yeah. So, starting as a solo creator, I posted a lot of stuff on social media and studios started reaching out asking if I would be interested in shooting for them. So, I was like, yeah, you know, give it a try. And then the more people that I shot for, the more studios reached out and it just kind of happened naturally.

Yeah, yeah, it did. You know, I, I kind of went the non-traditional route. I never had an agent or, you know, I didn't start out like, you know, knowing that I wanted to shoot for studios. It just kind of happened.

Yeah, so when I first started out, I started on OnlyFans and ManyVids and they were both, you know, relatively profitable. But the first major studio that hired me was Mike Adriano and like his sites, like I had worked for some smaller studios in Phoenix, but once he hired me.

So, when I first started in the industry, he came with me more often, but now I'm more established and I'm traveling. A lot of places and it's easier for me to vet people. Usually he doesn't come with me, but if it's like content stuff, like if it's my own production, usually he'll be the one to camera, so he'll be there with me.

Every now and then. Like we don't really do a lot of like one-on-one stuff. But if there's like an orgy or gangbang or something, of course. But he prefers more like the camera work and not the scene stuff. Yeah.

So, we have the same. I don't. I'm not one of those. Between both of us, there's really no jealousy. Like, he's not a jealous person. I'm not a jealous person as long as we're safe about it. And, like, if he sleeps with someone, you know, make sure that they're tested. Make sure that they're safe and everything. And, you know, same here. So, as long as we're safe about it and honest about it, communication is really the biggest thing.

It wasn't automatically like this, you know. We had to, kind of, it was new territory for both of us. I would say the, the, the absolute biggest piece of advice I have is communication. Be honest about everything, you know, even if like it's being honest about like, hey, you know, I saw you do this and, you know, I don't know why, but I got a little bit jealous maybe can we talk about that and maybe why that happened? And just kind of like one of our things is communication without fear of the other person, like getting mad. So, like if he comes to me and is like, hey, you know, I saw you do this, can we talk about it? Because I had some feelings. He can tell me that without me being like, oh, well, why are you having feelings? You shouldn't be having that. Like, you know, suck it up and then vice versa. And it's a process, you know, it doesn't happen overnight.

Yeah, little things like that. So, when I first started out in porn that was kind of one of our things, you know, I didn't really kiss anyone. And, you know, as we moved on, it just kind of became a little less important. Like, OK, yeah, sure. I think I would be OK if you started kissing other people or whatever. So just like little baby steps, like meet your partner where they're at, you know, if there's something they want. That's kind of sacred to your relationship, you know, just I think it's important to give them that because they're your partner and we're in a very good place where we could pretty much do anything with anyone else. That doesn't hurt our marriage. And for us, what we hold sacred is the emotional aspect. So, I will have sexual relationships with people, but I personally don't build like the emotional connections, you know, like I won't be going out on dates and, you know, saying I love you, you know, stuff like that.

To be in an industry like this, you got to, you got to have thick skin. You know, people are going to make comments, people are going to try to, you know, get under your skin, and annoy you. But you just got to ignore it. I mean, I find hate threads about me on Reddit or, you know, you just kind of got to, you know, read through, laugh about it, and just move on with your life, not let it bother you.

I do conventions a lot. The exotica conventions are like a big place for fans to come and meet me. I don't usually do like private meetups a lot just because it's a safety concern, but I am working on setting up later this year. It's a lot of. There's a lot of planning, but I'm working on setting up a 100 Guy gang bang, so that's gonna happen. It's gonna be a lot of fun and it's kind of just like, hey, here's your chance if you ever wanted to see what it's like.

Yeah. So, it’s like, they gotta go through the process of, you know, getting tested and it's gonna be filmed. So they have to be, okay, being filmed. They're able to wear a mask, but we gotta do all the appropriate legal stuff, make sure everyone's safe. Yeah. They got to go through the process of, getting tested and it's gonna be filmed. So, they have to be, okay, being filmed. They have to be able to wear a mask, but we gotta do all the appropriate legal stuff, to make sure everyone's safe.

Yeah. So, there is one fan in particular. And I know a lot of other girls probably have the same fan, but he's always super sweet and he is very supportive. Always, you know, gives the girls compliments, always supports them by joining their OnlyFans or, you know, just being very nice. On Twitter he goes by @Grimmjowwwww, but he's very sweet. And I know a lot of a lot of girls in the industry love him.

Absolutely. I am one of those people. I won't film something if I'm not actually into it. I think it's very important about like it's a very important aspect of being in this industry and for your own like longevity and mental health. I think it's important to, you know, film things that you personally like and not things that people are telling you to film, but you don't like.

No, pretty much. There are a couple things that we don't really do because he's not as into them, which is usually like more the like, like puke stuff or like pee stuff. He's not really into that as much. But yeah, the anal, BDSM, like all that stuff. We're super into anal BDSM.

Yeah, absolutely, there are two categories: cleaning and stretching. So, for cleaning, like I'm not one of those people that starve themselves because I do way too much anal to not eat. So, I eat normally, you know, I don't skip meals. I don't, you know, I don't have that kind of self-control. But at the night, like the night before, I take like a fibre supplement. So, it kind of helps like everything to stick together and then the morning of I will invest like an hour or two like cleaning and I use like a shower animal attachment. So, it's kind of, sorry if it's TMI, but like I do my entire you know, from the shower. It just all kind of goes down the drain and you know it takes a while but it's worth it.

Instead of starving, some people will take Imodium. I don't like that because it like messes up your digestive system and all of that. But I just invest in the time to clean and then for like stretching. I usually it sounds weird, but I prefer my own fist because I can kind of like use a lot of Lube and like start with like a finger too.

Like, I'm at the point where if I wanted to put my fist in my ass it would just go right in. I don't overstretch because you can make yourself irritated. You know? I don't like using toys to stretch because, you know, I might, I might irritate myself. Skin on skin is the best way in my mind. But yeah, just like. Invest in the time in cleaning and don't overdo it with the stretching you know gotta be relaxed, you can't be irritated. Yeah, go slow, be consistent. Consistency is the biggest part.

Yeah, very much so. I'm someone that likes challenges. If it's like, especially if someone's like, oh, she could never do that, then it makes me want to do that, but want to do it like in a safe way, you know, not just like hurt myself in the process, but being able to do it and being like, oh yeah, I could do it again too.

One of my favorite performers. I've worked with him a lot and he was the one that kind of, like, helped me get into everything, showed me how to start up OnlyFans and many beds is Richard Mann. I've shot with him hundreds of times now. But yeah, he's one of my favorite performers to work with.

As far as girls go, My friend Adira Allure you may or may not know her, but she's one of my best friends and favorite people to work with as well. Another guy in the industry, he does. His studio's name is Todd Cole Studios. He's the one that's helping me set up my 100 guy gangbang. So his thing is it's more like amateur looks. So, he uses, you know, just regular, average guys. Dad bods. You know, like, if you got like a smaller dick, if you're overweight, like you're welcome. And the tadpole shoots. And I love that. So, he's one of my best friends in the industry, too.

I don't know. I like bodies. I love like if you have a dick. I love dicks It doesn't matter the size, the length, whatever. And if you're a girl, like I don't know. I just. I love bodies. I love people.

Like I'm not super. Like not say I'm not picky. I love. I don't know. I would never say no to any size. I would say like if I had to choose like an ideal one, it's going to sound really weird, but like 5 to 7 inches is ideal for me. It's, I don't know, it's average, but you know, I've been with people like I've been with 12 inchers and I've been with half inchers, and I love them all.

I love my Hitachi. You can't come wrong with that.

Actually, my husband and I have a full size like suspension rig built into our room that's across the hall over there.

So, we do a lot of rope and actually the shoot that I'm going to in New York tomorrow is a very heavy BDSM shoot. So, it'll be fun.

So I'm a doggy girl. I love doggy. Part of the reason I love it is because I also like being choked in my hair, pulled. And it's just, I don't know. It's a great position. But yeah, I also like being on top, which is kind of odd. I don't know that a lot of people would say that, but. But yeah, doggie and cowgirl.

Like it could be a mixture of things. So I mentioned before that I like challenges. So maybe like, in some sort of aspect of it, maybe it's the challenge of it. I think I also kind of like the feeling of not being in control, even though I know I'm totally in control and I could stop it whenever I want. Which makes me not want to stop it. Yeah. And I think, you know, a lot of a lot of parts of my life, like, I love, like, I have a control freak. I like, you know, as much I like being in control of my schedule. I like, you know, knowing what I'm going to do, I like being in control of all of that. And something about being submissive and giving up that control is nice.

I play a variety of games.

My top two to play are World of Warcraft and Minecraft.

It just depends on if I feel like killing things or being creative. But yeah, yeah, I'm, I'm, I'm a little bit like if it's if it's on PC, I'm a PC girl.

Yeah. So the best way to like schedule like a custom or like a Skype show is like something they'll do. Skype dates and stuff are through my OnlyFans. I love doing customs. I love hearing everyone's fantasies and being kind of able to help make that come true.

And with like customs and stuff, I usually like, I'm not one of those people that get a custom order and then like three months later you still haven't got it. Usually, like when I get a custom order, I'm like super excited about it. So like, I'm getting it back to you like a couple days later. But yeah, yeah, OnlyFans is definitely the best place to hit me up about it.

I would say, the first one, probably the social stuff. Because I’m a very shy person. And I went from being an engineer by myself in a lab, to like talking to a bunch of people every day. Especially when it comes to like Expos, and where I'm actually like, meeting fans and talking to fans. It was a lot to process at first and learn. So, I would say that was a challenge, another challenge for me. I am, trying to think this through, another challenge for me is probably getting probably like the lack of privacy stuff and not necessarily like in a stalker way, but like lack of privacy in the terms of like if like.

Like in the terms of like the industry. So, like if I can't shoot because I have an embarrassing rash, you know, like people are going to know about it. Or like if I have a medical issue, if I go to the hospital, people are going to know about it, you know, if you know, it's just I don't, I don't have a private life anymore. So that was kind of another challenge. And then the third one is probably just with the marriage, not that it was, you know, rocky or challenging, but it's not like a lot of people are one person in this industry. You know, I'm like, it's me and my husband. We got to work through it together and grow together. And yeah, so I would say that was probably another kind of challenge of getting into our answer there too.